Should you text your ex?

20 questions across 4 areas, about 3 minutes. One honest score from 0 to 100 — plus a check for the text you're about to send.

For self-reflection & fun. Not a prediction or professional advice.
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Paste your last few messages?

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Your Ex Back Index

For self-reflection & fun — not a prediction. Real people don't follow scores.

Your four areas

Why this score 1 of 5 free

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Before-you-send check

Paste the text you're tempted to send. You'll get a red, yellow or green light.

Come back in 7 days and retake it — watching your score change is part of the point.

Ex Back Index is for self-reflection & entertainment. It is not a prediction, statistic, or professional advice.

Before you hit send…

Paste the text you're tempted to send. Red, yellow or green — in one second.

You matter more than any score.

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